This is kind of a follow up from one of my other questions and its kind of a mini survey for women?

When you first had sex did it hurt ?


Was it because of your hymen breaking or just because it felt uncomfortable the first time ?


or maybe it didnt hurt at all for you ?

This is kind of a follow up from one of my other questions and its kind of a mini survey for women?
i didnt hurt..just felt weird in a way...wasnt till after i was 30 that i enjoyed sex as a part of the act of love between 2 people...
Reply:First time i had sex it hurt a lot for there was two reasons for these 1 iwas scared too death and my body tightened up and couldnt relax,2 the men i went to bed with was in a hurry didnt know i was a virgin.the hymen hurted also it bleed some but after we was having sex it stopped bleeding ,once learning to relax it was great after that.
Reply:It hurts for some, and not for others. An awful lot depends on how sexually mature you are - ie. how ready you are for sex. If you're ready and have a caring and understanding partner, then your first sexual encounter shouldn't be painful - perhaps a tad uncomfortable though.
Reply:i lost my virginity at the age of 21. It mostly did not hurt because my hymen was only partially intact from using tampons etc. And we had lots of foreplay and my partner was more experienced than me so he knew how to make it more pleasurable.
Reply:The first time it hurt and that was kinda a combination of my hymen breaking and because i was uncomfortable.
Reply:1. im a virgin :P